Adulting

In the last past weeks, I have done something I had been meaning to do for a while but always pushed back at the bottom of my TODO pile: prepare for my death.

I am still quite young and perfectly healthy (mentally and physically) and I do plan to live a long and full life, but death is something that comes from us all and can strike anytime. Having witnessed friends and colleagues who lost loved ones who did not prepare adequately for their passing, dealing with all this legal stuff ahead of time seems like the best gift you can leave them.

Writing my will was the easiest part of this "preparation for death" process. I have few material possessions and I'm leaving everything to my SO. As for the copyright for my code, I have decided everything I wrote will be licensed under CC0 (public domain) when I die. Quebec — where I live — also accepts holograph wills, which means I didn't have to hire a notary.

Apart from the will, I also wrote a protection mandate¹, filled out Quebec's organ donation form², took a contract for prearranged funeral services³ and finally, wrote a disaster recovery plan.

This recovery plan was by far the longest and most tedious part of this entire ordeal. If all your machines use full-disk encryption and you die or forget your passwords (for example after a head injury), can your data be recovered? How do you arbitrate between easy recovery and data security? If all your local devices burn down and you also pass away in the process, how will your next of kin access your remote backups and extract the relevant data (in my case, my password manager)?

I had to ask myself many complex questions in this process and although I won't be sharing my disaster recovery plan here (security through obscurity), I urge you to take the time to do something similar yourself and make sure you will leave a house in order when you go away.